
My name is Janet and I come from Kitui. I have been married for twelve years. In the beginning everything was beautiful. My husband and I were happy, we laughed a lot, and people used to say we were the perfect couple. Then slowly things began to change. My husband became quiet. He would come home, eat, and go straight to bed without saying much. I thought it was stress from work, so I tried to be understanding. Months turned into years and the silence in our home became painful.
We no longer talked about anything meaningful. Even simple things like how the day went turned into arguments. I started feeling lonely even though he was right beside me. It hurt deeply because I still loved him but did not know how to fix things. Friends told me to pray, others said I should go for counseling. We tried all that but nothing changed. The love that used to keep us strong was fading away.
One afternoon, while at the market, I overheard two women talking. They were saying how one of them had found peace at home after talking to a traditional healer called Dr Bokko. I listened quietly at first, but when they mentioned how he helps couples find understanding and warmth again, my heart paid attention. Later that day, I asked around and got his number. I was nervous at first but decided to call.
When Dr Bokko answered, his voice was calm and kind. He listened to everything I said without rushing me. I told him how my husband and I were living like strangers. He told me that many couples go through similar struggles when the spiritual and emotional connection between them weakens. He explained that his work as a traditional and herbal healer is to restore balance and peace where it has been lost.
He prepared herbal medicine for me and told me exactly how to use it. He also advised me to stay calm, speak positively in my home, and believe that love can be renewed. I followed his guidance carefully. Within a few days, I noticed small changes. My husband began greeting me warmly again. We started having short conversations that slowly grew longer each evening.
After two weeks, it felt like we were rediscovering each other. He started coming home early and sometimes brought small gifts like he used to. We began cooking and eating together again. One Sunday, he even suggested that we take a walk after church, something we had not done for years. My heart felt light for the first time in a long while. Read more.