My marriage was once full of love, excitement and intimacy, but everything started to change after I gave birth, because my private parts lost their firmness and I became too loose during intimacy.

At first, I ignored it and thought it was something that would improve with time, but instead it only got worse, and each night my husband became less interested in me, leaving me with a heavy heart and endless questions about whether our marriage would survive.

It hurt me deeply to watch him lose passion, because he used to hold me close and tell me how much he desired me, yet now he avoided intimacy and sometimes even slept on the couch to escape the awkwardness we faced in our bedroom.

I knew men are men, and if he could not find satisfaction with me, he might go searching for it elsewhere, and that thought scared me more than anything else, because I loved him dearly and could not imagine losing him to another woman.

The looseness made me feel useless as a wife and as a woman, and although he tried not to be cruel, there were nights he told me directly that things were no longer the same and that I no longer pleased him the way I used to. Read more.