1. You always forgive too quickly
   No matter what she does, you rush to forgive her. She knows you’ll never truly hold her accountable.
2. You don’t set boundaries
   When you allow disrespect, lateness, or neglect without correcting her, she starts seeing it as normal.
3. You over-invest while she under-invests
   You’re the one always calling, texting, spending, planning… She just enjoys without putting in effort.
4. You fear losing her
   She senses that fear, so she stops fearing to lose you. Power in the relationship shifts.
5. You reward bad behavior
   Even when she acts cold or distant, you still shower her with love and attention. That only makes her bolder.
6. You stopped being a challenge
   At first, she fought to impress you. Now you’ve made things too easy, so she doesn’t value your presence like before. Remember: The more you tolerate, the more she will take you for granted.

Do you agree with this list, or would you add another reason?