As a man, stop giving your wife your children’s school fees to pay.
Start creating time and chance to go pay directly yourself

Let them know you are the one paying

Stop giving your wife money to all the clothes for them, start creating time to tale them out to buy some clothes

Let them know you drop money for food

The reason why i am telling you this is my recent encounter with a client

His children see him as a useless father without knowing he pays for everything.

The wife changed the narrative all this while to the children and they hat£ him with passion.

If you don’t heed to this advice.
I hope you don’t regret it.