I am married to a Kalenjin man,I’ve never enjoyed this marriage,he has been zero grazing me and doesn’t want men to even greet me.He’s a boring man,always talking about mursik,cows,land and tractor. 4 months ago I got a job in a hardware through my husband’s friend.

In the process I met this Luo man who came to buy building materials. He liked me and we exchanged numbers. He took me to java for the first time in my life and paid Ksh 850 without complaining.

He gave me ksh 5,000 fare. My husband has never taken me out, he only took me to kicc for photos and Uhuru Park in 2018.
We’ve been chatting and meeting with him regularly until last week Friday when I decided to surrender myself to him. He satisfied me completely,more than husband. The 40 minutes were out of this world.

Now my heart has completely left my husband and settled on this Luo man. I have 1 kid and he is ready to take me in with him. He tells me when I am ready, he will come and pick me together with my child.

My husband doesn’t know anything. I want to shock him soon when I move out ubruptly.
I have never dated Luos before and I want to get your opinion about how they treat their wives before I make up my mind. Maybe he’s only treating me good because we’re not married.