“When I was 21, I jumped into relationships without even having a clear direction in life. Big mistake.At this age, don’t rush into relationships when you haven’t laid a foundation for yourself. Ask yourself: What have you built? How have you improved? You can’t expect someone to take you seriously if you haven’t even started taking yourself seriously.Most young guys get it wrong here, thinking they can balance serious relationships while still figuring out who they are. But the truth is, this is the time for you. This is the time to work on personal growth.Here’s what you need to focus on instead: start a business, learn a new skill, read more books, travel if you can, and expand your network. The key is to focus on growth—in every aspect—mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally.Build your communication skills, hit the gym, understand what it means to be a man. If you didn’t have a father figure, find a mentor who can guide you. Stay away from distractions like alcohol, drugs, and meaningless relationships. They’ll only hold you back.When you hit 25, you’ll be far ahead of those who wasted their early 20s chasing relationships instead of investing in themselves. By focusing on your own growth, you’ll set yourself up for success—and the relationships will come in time, once you’ve built a solid foundation.Work on your health, learn life skills like cooking and managing your finances, and hustle on the side. It’s about becoming the best version of yourself, not following what everyone else is doing.If you want more insights like this, click the link in my bio to join my Telegram channel. Thanks, and follow for more!”, Elvis.