
Every woman deserves to be chosen, not tolerated.
But the fact is that men don’t prioritize what’s easily replaceable.
And here is how to position yourself as the only option:
- Stop over-giving.
If you’re doing everything without him earning it, he’ll take you for granted. - Keep your standards visible.
A man can’t prioritize what he doesn’t respect. Let him know what you tolerate, and what you don’t. - Build your own life.
When you have purpose, friends, and peace outside him, he’ll fight harder to secure his place in it. - Reward consistency, not empty promises.
Words are cheap. Actions are the currency of priority. - Walk away from “maybe.”
If he’s unsure about you, don’t stick around to convince him. That’s how you become an option.
A man will only treat you as his number one when you stop being comfortable as his number two.